
Preventing your trans child from accessing hormone blockers will negatively impact their mental health for years to come, possibly for the rest of their life, as it will amplify both their dysphoria and the medical interventions necessary to help them pass. Additionally, social transition is non-medical but is massive impactful in helping your kid’s mental health. Any good therapist would go “yeah you should let your kid socially transition”
I’m fine with social transition to test the waters. But I don’t believe it is in a child’s best interest for them to make major life-altering decisions such as hormonal transition care in a time where they are prone to bad decisions. I wouldn’t disallow it but I would strongly encourage them to wait until legal adulthood, when I would be far more willing to support them
Regret rates for gender affirming surgery are estimated to be less than 1%. Knee replacements are 14%, breast reconstruction up to 47%, up to 30% for prostatectomy, and up to 19.5% following bariatric surgery. Having children has a 7% regret rate, meaning that you’re more likely to regret having your kid than your kid is to regret gender affirming surgery