ya know what, (as a leftist) i actually don’t disagree, when discussing topics like racism/sexism/homophobia i try to only make statements about what was said rather than a value judgement on the individual (ie i don’t think you yourself have ill intentions but what you just said does) it’s better for conversation. you catch more flies with honey and all that
Just because I identify as a republican doesn’t mean I agree with the current state of things. I actually hate trump and a lot of my conservative friends do as well. Y’all tend to mix MAGA with conservatives when maybe that was true in the 2016 election. They’ve became there own separate thing in my book
Good point, I think where it mainly differs is how they react when we do disagree. In my experience if I’m not 100% on board with democrats way of thinking then I’m an enemy. And if I’m not 100% with conservative we can still be friends. Like I said earlier I’m more moderate I agree with democrats on something but because I wasent 100% they treated me as an enemy. In fairness thats not everyone same as with your experience with being called names by conservatives.
I guess I’m just wondering why others saying rude things to you would influence your beliefs? I would say I align pretty far left, but I’ve certainly experienced hostility from other people who are on the left when we might not agree on something. That’s kinda just life, no? You run into people who are hotheaded or can’t accept they might be wrong about something.
They don’t necessarily influence my beliefs, rather affirm them if that makes sense. Say I voted for trump, and then I realize “oh wait this guy is actually evil” everyone I’ve seen on here and I’ve interacted with would rather dig into the fact that I voted for him than have an actual conversation about why I changed my mind. And say I voted for Biden and thing later “wait this guy isn’t fit for office” republicans don’t care that I voted for him rather just have a conversation about it.
Just to be clear, the only reason that I pushed you so hard on finding out who you voted for was because some of your answers seemed to suggest that the primary driver of your political decisions was based on which faction was nicer to you. Once it became clear that that impression was false, I dropped it.