
The answer is neither. They are fearful. Fear drives us to act against our better judgment. Fear also causes anger and anger causes intuitional and relational blindness. We must not give in to fear and nor let it push others further into fear, otherwise we orchestrate our own destruction.
Y'all could really care to watch a Studio Ghibli film or two. The human condition is deeply misunderstood by most of us but not by any cause but our own. Not innately knowing who we are is a part of who we are. Life is a paradox, time is an illusion, and reality is subjective. Yet we fail to understand this, and it's precisely why we suffer.