
The only reason that the L, G, and B people in that acronym have federal protection to marry is because they were vocal about it in public. You were alive to see that be passed into law, but too young to see the visceral reaction that conservatives at the time had to just the idea of that
Never called Lancaster southern and definitely not for the hard r. I don’t think anyone should be aloud to say any slur because it is a slur. I did hear it tho because I grew up in Pittsburgh and it’s very common there but I never agreed with it. Better yet race and sexual orientation are very different things