
I have an Sig sauer P365, it’s a really nice, accurate little gun with a relatively good trigger and its optic ready, which is super nice. It is pretty snappy though, it’s got some kick. If all you want is size and recoil, the S&W bodyguard 2.0 is a great choice, but it is less powerful. The Glock 42/43 are go-tos for everyone, but I don’t like how square the grip is or how the trigger feels
And I totally forgot, ammunition is super important and people tend to forget about it. If you end up with 9mm Luger/parabellum/9x19 it’s all the same thing, 124gr speer gold dots or 147gr federal HST is what I use. If you go for .380 auto, the 90gr sig V-Crown and 90gr Speer gold dot are both good choices.