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Maybe I’m not online enough but I still don’t understand the whole trans women are real women lore. You can’t become something just bc you say it. Your body’s composition is not gonna change and your penis won’t turn to a vagina.
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Anonymous 4w

Again it’s sex vs gender. A trans woman’s sex will always be male, but their gender is woman. Sex is biological, gender is psychological.

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Anonymous 4w

The idea is that gender is a social construct. There are norms and aesthetics associated with gender and therefore it is not a concrete biological concept and even changes over time. Sex on the other hand is rooted in the type of gametes you produce, which is correlated with your chromosomes. This is a biological difference that can’t change even with hormones and surgery.

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Anonymous 4w

Guaranteed that if a trans woman got surgery to have a vagina you’d still find some bullshit excuse to call her a man, this has nothing to do with genitals and you know it

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Anonymous 4w

Who cares? Like is it really worth the effort to spend the time fighting over whether someone wants to be called a woman and wear a dress. Just let people live their lives. I frankly don’t get it but it literally has no effect on my life or your life. So why the fuss?

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Anonymous 4w

Seriously, do y’all believe that crap? Or is are y’all fucking with me

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Anonymous 4w

Honestly the science behind transgender identities is really interesting, it’s part biology part sociology. It’d be an interesting deep dive if you were ever interested.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Even if I didn’t, why would I make my life more miserable by choosing to be upset about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Why didn’t y’all say that. Most people act like they magically turn into a biological women because of pronounce switch which is not true.

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Anonymous replying to -> shrimp_fried_rice 4w

If you’re not interested in doing the deep dive however, it will never not be a confusing concept for you. But just because you don’t understand something doesn’t mean you can’t respect it. It doesn’t cost you anything to be chill about it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Trans women ARE biological women. Neurochemistry is part of biology

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

The specification of “cis vs trans women” normally isn’t relevant to conversations anyway, unless it’s specifically about trans identities. It’s easier to just refer to both in the collective women, Yknow?

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Anonymous replying to -> shrimp_fried_rice 4w

No. That’s where the whole problem and debate arises. If y’all weren’t tryna say you are “cis” women and attack anybody who disagrees I don’t think anybody would really have a problem with trans people. (I don’t but js)

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Anonymous replying to -> boariskarloff 4w

No one ever said they were biological women hence the word “trans”. Trans means their sex does not align with their gender. It’s easy to deduce if you’ve ever taken chemistry and learned about trans and cis isomers.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I’m saying it. Trans women are biological women

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Every trans women I’ve met have pretty much said they were biological women. To the point where they even tried to hide it from guys they wanted to date. Like if they just referred to theirselves as trans women then it wouldn’t be a problem. Nothing wrong with being trans.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I’ve never met a trans person say they were cis, that’s just not true. People definitely have a lot more problems with trans folks than just them trying to pass as their desired gender, trust and believe

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

You just made an entire post shitting on trans people, don’t try walking that back coward

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Anonymous replying to -> boariskarloff 4w

That’s why we have this problem lol. Because people like you. Then you’ll call everybody transphobic disagreeing.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

What the hell is a trans and cis isomer. That’s fake bud

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Visibility gets trans women killed. They’re not “hiding” it to plot against you. They’re trying to avoid femicide.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

No I didn’t

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Because surgery doesn’t create a vagina. You are born with it or not. It has everything to do with genetila

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Well there is a biological *component* to being a transgender person if you wanna be technical about it, it’s the neuroscience of brains being wired differently than the body. But every trans person knows what cisgender means, and knows they’re not that so

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

You set yourself up to this by opening your big fat digital mouth; I’m not “calling” you anything. I am telling you what your beliefs amount to.

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Anonymous replying to -> shrimp_fried_rice 4w

It can definitely be unsafe in certain instances to out yourself as trans all the time, especially in today’s political environment, so that’s why people aren’t 100% visible about it aside from it just not being relevant

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Anonymous replying to -> shrimp_fried_rice 4w

Idk too much maybe you’re right and there is a biological component. Every trans might know what cis gender means but every “cis” gender don’t know what a cis gender is. Since we don’t need to know those niche terms since majority of the population is “cis” gender

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I mean it seems like you’re just upset at trans people for trying to pass as their desired gender, which, isn’t that kinda the goal? Depending on the environment most trans people are open about disclosing their identity when asked, but most times it just doesn’t come up bc it’s not relevant, people are just tryna live their lives

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

It literally has nothing to do with genitals, and everything to do with gendered signifiers Ok I’m going to assume you’re a hetero dude: 11/10 woman with a dick or Hulk Hogan with a pussy? Because if it is truly all genitalia then it would have to be the later

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Neither. Just because there’s a hole doesn’t mean I will fuck it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

If you had to choose one dude. Don’t dodge the question. Because I can almost guarantee you do have a preference for one of the two

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Are you truly in a position to be so selective? Zoomers aren’t getting active like past generations used 2

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Anonymous replying to -> boariskarloff 4w

Lmaooooo

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

I don’t really care either. I live my life and let people live theirs. If I say a trans person I’d treat them like anybody else lol. Just wanted to have a discussion and get something straight on here

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Again neither. I don’t have to chose. Forcing me to have sex with someone I don’t want to is called rape btw

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

If you had to chose one dude. Don’t dodge the question. Would you have sex with trump or Biden….. U see how that works?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

“You’re RAPING me in this HYPOTHETICAL SCENARIO” get real

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I’m not forcing you to have sex with someone, it’s a thought experiment. Stop this self persecutory bullshit

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

And my thought is neither

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Trump’s ass is fatter so Trump

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

It is a thought experiment my guy, holy fuck you’re fragile

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Anonymous replying to -> boariskarloff 4w

Who downvoted me? My logic was sound. He does have a big ass.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Then trans”gender” don’t exist - no serious individual goes trans-“social identity”

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