
I’m kinda just lucky😅 I’m relatively female sized by default. I’m skinny and 5’4”, and I have pretty big glutes because of a gymnastics and dance background, so I usually just buy clothes whatever clothes and they usually fit. Sometimes I’ll wear hip pads or a corset, but usually I don’t have to do much to fill stuff out. Occasionally I’ll bring out the sewing machine and tailor some stuff to make them smaller, but that’s usually for men’s clothes because they almost never fit me right 💀🥲
It kinda depends on the brands. The cuts are slightly different, and I think usually like a women’s will be a size or two below the men’s equivalent. So like a men’s small is a women’s large/medium, and a women’s small is like a men’s xs or xxs. And if it’s non-domestic, it’s impossible. There was this one Chinese-made cosplay I once got that showed measurements, and I think I had to get like an XXL. It’s all over the place really. Best advice I can give is just to know your measurements.