
I think sex strikes are a funny concept, love seeing dudes get mad when the concept is floated and laughing, and I also think they’re fundamentally unrealistic to call for. Women like sex and intimacy too. The whole “we should go on sex strike” call also lowkey plays into that old patriarchal notion that sex is to be enjoyed by men, and merely tolerated by women.
Are you really gonna make me sit here and “not all men” post? Because frankly, that’s a “having standards” issue. I’m not saying women aren’t gonna be selective. Maybe even highly so. But they’re not gonna go fully celibate. There are and will continue to be men who view women as human beings out there, and they will continue to get laid. Healthy heterosexual relationships do in fact exist. Mass sex strike is never gonna happen.
And if you’re gonna hit me with “well all men have internalized misogyny” then yeah, you’re right. And so do all women. Everyone raised in patriarchy’s got that shit. Not everyone externalizes that tendency. Which is where I think most straight women would draw their line. Everyone raised in patriarchy has internalized misogyny, the question is whether they embrace that attitude or reflect on it and try to combat it in themselves.
Again, that’s a standards issue. “No Trump supporters” is a pretty common standard these days for women to have, from what I hear. I wouldn’t know, I’m in a relationship so I don’t know what the single girlies are up to fr but I’ve heard Republican men bitching about women not wanting to date them specifically because of their godawful politics for a WHILE.