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US Politics 25w

shrimp_fried_rice

 As someone who’s had very little interest in sex, I think puritanical culture is baffling. It’s not medieval times anymore, we have forms of birth control besides abstinence now. Just say you’re controlling and want to feel morally superior like
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Anonymous 25w

Purity culture is like, the cringiest.

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Anonymous 25w

It’s less about feeling morally superior and more about holding people to high standards

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Anonymous 25w

I don’t want to be with anyone who doesn’t see the most intimate possible act as something that’s available for just anyone they’re sexually attracted to.

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Anonymous replying to -> landtrust 25w

My philosophy is as long as you’re not harming yourself or others, I don’t care. Safe, protected sex between two consenting adults doesn’t hurt anyone. Who cares if that’s what someone enjoys?

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Anonymous replying to -> shrimp_fried_rice 25w

Harming others or yourself, but you’re harming your spirit in my opinion

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Anonymous replying to -> landtrust 25w

No offense but that’s just moral grandstanding

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Anonymous 25w

That’s devastating :( you deserve a healthy relationship with your sexuality. I hope you know there’s no shame in sexual desires or activities as long as you’re keeping yourself and your partner safe and being responsible. 🩷

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Anonymous replying to -> shrimp_fried_rice 25w

How? I didn’t mention morals

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Anonymous replying to -> landtrust 25w

The whole thing of “harming yourself spirit” is usually associated with sinning or dirtying yourself by engaging in immoral or degrading acts. Sex is a neutral activity, there’s nothing dirtying or “spiritually harmful” about having sex

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Anonymous replying to -> shrimp_fried_rice 25w

*harming your spirit

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Anonymous replying to -> shrimp_fried_rice 25w

Honestly I’m a pagan now and although I agree with Christianity it’s not a moral thing

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Anonymous replying to -> shrimp_fried_rice 25w

But also it harms society as a whole by introducing these anti social cultural practices

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Anonymous replying to -> landtrust 25w

So what did you mean when you said spiritually harmful? That concept implies having sex is inherently wrong or harmful, when it’s really not

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Anonymous replying to -> shrimp_fried_rice 25w

I mean it destroys your soul

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 25w

And that’s your choice. Doesn’t make you a better person than someone who likes to have casual sex tho. That’s my point.

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