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i can never judge someone for how they react to a crime. grief is strange, my grandmother was taken by a drunk driver and it took months for me to cry over it. i was just in shock moving like normal. ppl thought i was crazy but its how i processed it 🤷🏻‍♀️
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Anonymous 6w

Oh same and I get really bothered when people closely analyze the way someone reacts to a loss unless it really is crazy. Like my dad died and only an hour or two later I was crying from LAUGHING so hard. Grief doesn’t always make sense from an outsider’s pov

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Anonymous 6w

as a psych and crim double major i completely agree with this post and think more people should do research into different types of grief and coping strategies. people really think if someone doesn’t grieve the way they do that that person is strange

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Anonymous 6w

FACTS there’s not 1 way to grieve.

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Anonymous 6w

One of my biggest soap boxes is the dingo ate my baby lady because everyone thought she was guilty because she didn’t look “sad enough” and then evidence came out that she was literally telling the truth. A dingo did eat her baby. Grief can really look so different

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Anonymous 5w

Fr I cried BEFORE my grandma died and not after

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

i watched my grandmas body roll out of her house when she died and i couldn’t take my eyes off it. i think they thought i was strange for staring.

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