
it's not accessible to me. im frustrated that im not able to get phallo until i get different insurance because mine is legally allowed to discriminate against trans people by not covering gender affirming care, and it was frustrating to me to be recommended a surgery that i can't have rather than commiseration
okay so i just met with a pelvic floor therapist and she recommended (after checking with my dr bc she's not legally allowed to prescribe/tell me how to change how i take my meds) that i apply it focusing on the labia minora rather than majora like i have been. i'm gonna wear gloves so there's at least a barrier and hopefully that works