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I just realized once I transitioned how tf am I supposed to make friends as a girl Normally I can just talk to guys about sports and just automatically be besties for at least the night but like so many girls make hating sports their personality 😭😭😭
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Anonymous 3w

i have the opposite problem 😭

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Anonymous 3w

if you’re looking for topics, music is one that’s easy thing for me (but that’s gonna depend on your music taste and who you’re talking too) another thing that works is reality tv. like ive been able to talk with other girls about reality tv series like love island, dwts, housewives, etc. like the way i would with guys about sports

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Naw men are easy What market u in If u know one talking point ur good and i got u

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

wdym what market im in

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

What’s ur closest sports city

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Ohhhh well nyc but the team i know the most about is the seattle mariners

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Oh u poor unfortunate soul 😭😭😭 Just talk about unimaginable pain and no hope and u can relate to ever Man U meet Just imagine like when u were dysphoric and at ur lowest and that’s what every fan of nyc sports feels rn (minus the nicks who weirdly have hope this year so maybe mention that 😭😭😭)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

o7 thank u wise one

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

The real trans girl to trans boy cultural exchange 😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

My underground music listening weeb ass is so fucking cooked…

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

like i think its helpful to go on tiktok/whatever and see the current pop culture people are talking about, not to say base your entire personality on popular things or that girls only do that, you’ll find plenty of women out there who don’t care about pop culture, but i think if you want easy talking points to the degree of sports but for girls, that’s a good place to start

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

lol yeah me being a swiftie has helped in a couple friendships but don’t feel forced to change your music listening habits just for that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Ig I just gotta stick to making friends in the line for basement shows and whatnot 😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

i mean that’s still is a valid way to do it, you’ll probably my find easier friendships to keep when it’s based on things you’re genuinely interested in

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