Anonymous #1 7w

interacting with your sexuality—especially while transitioning—can be incredibly harrowing. you never know what you may discover about yourself, and that’s terrifying. remember that indulging in emotions is often an “out” to questions, even when—especially when—those emotions are negative. pain comforts when the alternative is uncertainty.

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Anonymous #1 7w

My concern more so comes from being trans fem and also nearly exclusively into women. Like I want to have sexual relationships with someone but I feel like a chaser or like a creep if I try to flirt and stuff.

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Anonymous OP 7w

oh 😭 yeah, it’s definitely hard when you worry about being misinterpreted, but that’s why communication matters, especially when talking with strangers. being genuine with what I think and want has always worked for me, since it attracts the right people

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Anonymous OP 7w

If it makes you feel any better, it’s extremely common for cis lesbians to also feel ashamed and gross for being attracted to other women. The fear of being too much like a man in how you view women is a unifying lesbian experience

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