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It bothers me when cis women bitch about heels because id love to wear heels in public w/o being looked at as some freak. Plus like, wearing heels is optional women dont have to wear them. They just get the choice to where trans women get scrutinized.
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Anonymous 11h

they’re often pressured to wear heels in certain situations or events, and looked down on for not doing so. that’s not much of a choice, and they’re just mirroring the same frustration you have

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Anonymous 10h

in some work spaces they are literally not optional. it's not fair trans women are judged and scrutinized for wearing heels. it doesn't make cis women complaining abt them wrong.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7h

And those women signed up for that job.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7h

okay so that's pretty dismissive. you can be mad. direct the mad properly.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6h

also like, you ever had a shitty job? it sucks, even when you want and need the job desperately. dysphoria is a bitch and social judgement and ostracism are too and im sorry the world isn't kinder. you're right, it's not fair

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