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Trans Talk 7w
It bothers me when cis women bitch about heels because id love to wear heels in public w/o being looked at as some freak. Plus like, wearing heels is optional women dont have to wear them. They just get the choice to where trans women get scrutinized.
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Anonymous 7w

they’re often pressured to wear heels in certain situations or events, and looked down on for not doing so. that’s not much of a choice, and they’re just mirroring the same frustration you have

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Anonymous 7w

in some work spaces they are literally not optional. it's not fair trans women are judged and scrutinized for wearing heels. it doesn't make cis women complaining abt them wrong.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

And those women signed up for that job.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

okay so that's pretty dismissive. you can be mad. direct the mad properly.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

also like, you ever had a shitty job? it sucks, even when you want and need the job desperately. dysphoria is a bitch and social judgement and ostracism are too and im sorry the world isn't kinder. you're right, it's not fair

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Really gross of you to say… Also don’t call women’s dislike of being forced into something they do not want to do “bitching”. You sound incredibly misogynistic

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Its “gross” that im upset a group of people complain about something that is basically optional for them and I get scrutinized for doing? I have the right to be upset bc i get hate crimed for wearing them. So dont come on here calling me gross okay

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Also stop lurking on trans talk if ur gonna just dismiss and shut down ppls dysphoria as gross. Go fuck urself get outta this page

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

I’m trans, I belong here. You said something misogynistic, so I’m going to call it out

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

I’m not dismissing your dysphoria. Your dysphoria is real, and you (or anyone here) shouldn’t have to be scrutinized or be in danger for wearing heals. I never said that. I’m saying that some of what you said in this post is gross and misogynistic

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Saying “Those women signed up for that job” in reference to women who are forced to wear heals to stay employed while men in the same position do not have the same expectation is in fact misogynistic. Being a woman does not excuse misogyny.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

my mom (cis) is a great example of that last point lol.

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