
For me I’m still choosing between two names but honestly the feeling of one or the other being “me” is entirely based on which one I hear used more often cause some of my friends use one and some use the other. So like. That feeling will probably come after you use it for a while. As for how to choose it? Idfk I still can’t decide between the two🫠
This is what I did. Went with the name my late father thought would be good and that’s how it’s been. My middle name was from my sister and mum— they both told me what they thought would fit (sister through text and mum in person), same name at the exact same time. My last names are that of my grandparents, and then parents hyphenated with my step-dad’s.