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Trans Talk 5w
As someone who’s not out yet, is it wrong to date as a I am now? I feel like I’d be serving up a bait and switch, hard to get over that feeling.
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Anonymous 5w

I wouldn’t say it’s “wrong” but you’d probably end up making your partner feel misled/betrayed if you keep it from them until you’re ready to actually come out. Might be better to work on feeling comfortable with your identity, and then seeking a relationship

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Anonymous 5w

Date a bi person ig🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous 5w

Hmm.. wrong? No. But I think holding off for a bit is good until you have yourself figured out more :)

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Anonymous replying to -> gipsum 5w

That’s kinda where I’m leaning, thanks

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Totally see that. Probably best for them to get a more authentic version of myself before it comes to that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

I mean yeah, that would be the safest bet I guess 😂

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