any other ftm guys in college feel like they're never fully comfortable hanging out with girls but also they'll never fully fit in when hanging out with guys?
pass too much to fit in with girls, don’t pass enough to fit in with guys, pass just enough to eat oatmeal alone in my dorm & play hollow knight
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Anonymous1w
honestly yeah, but probably not how y’all’s are feeling. i don’t pass enough to be seen as a guy, so i get treated too much as a girl, and obviously guys don’t see me as a guy :/
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Anonymous1w
Totally get this. It feels kinda odd because I wanna hang out with girls but I’m seen as this outsider because I’m a dude but with the guys I’m this outsider because I’m not a hyper masculine dude
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Anonymous1w
it mainly feels weird to me when it’s strangers
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Anonymous1w
i seem to only make friends with women which is fine by me
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Anonymous#41w
YES this is what I meann 😭
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AnonymousOP1w
🤝 on a real note tho i feel you bro, i would love a group of guy friends but i would feel like the odd one out. 99.9% of my friends in life were/are girls, & they were all great people, but again: felt like the odd one out (but in a different font this time)
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Anonymous#51w
no this is actually exactly what I mean and it's so frustrating!!