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I’m just very, very confused, and don’t know who I can ask this other than the trans community. I typed it in a notes app so I could get most of my thoughts into one post.
15 upvotes, 4 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Trans Talk. "I’m just very, very confused, and don’t know who I can ask this other than the trans community. I typed it in a notes app so I could get most of my thoughts into one post."
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Anonymous 30w

ok so I get what you mean. my dysphoria was never super super bad. like I was able to exist as a man, but it just... kinda felt off? like i was playing a part. and what really helped me figure it out wasn't identifying the dysphoria, but identifying the gender euphoria, and the fact that I was happier when I was recognized as a woman.

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Anonymous 30w

There is no such thing as appropriating womanhood and anyone trying to tell you so is a terf 💖

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Anonymous 30w

me personally, my dysphoria didn’t manifest until puberty. i wasn’t uncomfortable being in my body until it started to change in a way i felt was “wrong” or “unnatural”. it almost felt like playing a part or living someone else’s life. Also, it’s perfectly fine to experiment with gender and accept that you are comfortable in the one you are born in. Finally, gender is a spectrum so don’t feel as if it is necessary for you to “choose” one way or the other. Hope this helps :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 30w

This is actually really, really helpful, thank you. I guess seeing so many stories of trans people knowing they were trans so concretely has been making me second guess myself a lot.

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