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Hey y’all this is gonna be a weird one, so I’m transmasc (possibly genderfluid?) but I find myself wanting to explore being feminine presenting (as a male) and I don’t really know what to make of it. Has anyone had a similar experience?
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Anonymous 1d

You can be gender nonconforming dude. There’s no rule against it

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Anonymous 1d

Im slowly getting back into it. The trick is feminine stuff that still features the parts of your body youre proud of. I do this with shorts so short and low rise that my leg hair, tummy hair, and lowkey my bush pops out from both sides. Slays. I also wear a lot of jewelry again but like only stainless steel chains

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Anonymous 1d

yeah i find that when i have less dysphoria to combat i have more freedom of expression and can present more femininely

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Anonymous 23h

The desire to be a feminine man is so strong. When I dress femme I want it to be in a boy way tho. I’m just a fruity dude who crochets and wears crop tops 🤭

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Anonymous 1d

i feel this big time and i think it’s fairly common for some trans people. i’ve always liked to dress femininely but wasn’t entirely comfortable with it until i was on T and started passing cos now i look like a guy wearing a dress and not a girl.

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Anonymous 1d

I want to be a male who presents both masculine and feminine, unfortunately I was born female. I expect that when I transition and am happy with how I look as a man I will begin to express more fem sometimes, but until then I’m almost strictly masc presenting

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Anonymous 1d

Yeah that happens. Femininity can be fun for everyone!

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Anonymous 1d

the more i pass the more feminine i sometimes choose to be!! i've worn a women's blouse, i wear eyeliner sometimes, etc!! i never liked being a woman, but i liked crossdressing and being gender non conforming as a man

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

It helps me at least to be alt idk ab u

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

Yeah I 100% get this, I’m pre-HRT but I bind sometimes (most of the time I’m out I’m doing physical activities tho and I don’t want to pass the fuck out 😭) I wish you luck in your transition, and I hope that you’re really happy :))

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

First of all, that’s baller as fuck dude! Second of all you nailed my feelings exactly because I want to be a guy that sometimes wears skirts and makeup. I don’t know why I want to do it, but ig it’ll be a little funny watching the gears turn in people’s heads when they see me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

That’s super real too, I can’t bind right now because I had a reduction surgery and now my binders don’t fit, but even before I didn’t wear them too often as I walk a lot

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I do want to dress more alternatively! I’m a big fan of leather jackets, jean jackets, chains, belts, harnesses, and I’ve been thrifting for new looks lately! My dream look is probably a getting a cropped leather jacket, fishnet undershirt, jeans, and wearing eyeliner :))

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

Hell yeah! This is slightly off topic, but if I could try it out I think I’d dress in fem drag and see how it makes me feel because I think drag queens are badasses

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