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Trans Talk 10w
Recently got into t4t relationship. I’m pre-t, he’s been on t. I have such an urge to start, but I’m scared to have that convo. Like he’d get it, but still. It’s a vulnerable topic…
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Anonymous 10w

Any kind of vulnerability is scary. Even when it’s irrational it’s understandable. Just remember that he’s bound to be accepting. And if he isn’t, that’s an issue with him and you deserve better.

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Anonymous 10w

honestly if he has a problem with it you need to know that now so you can get out of there

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Anonymous 10w

why would he have a problem with it?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

people are unpredictable… it may not make any sense for a trans person to be transphobic towards their partner but it definitely does happen. when i was out but pre-T i used to date another trans guy who ended up being super invalidating about my gender bc he was attracted to my [perceived 😐] “femininity”

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

weird asf

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