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Trans Talk 1d
I’ve figured out that I’m definitely trans, but I don’t really want to give up my masculinity. I like my clothes and hobbies that lean masc, but I want to be perceived as a woman doing so. Is it wrong for me to want to keep a lot of my masculinity?
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Anonymous 1d

no that’s actually very common lol (presenting masc/doing traditionally-masc hobbies as a trans woman, that is)

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Anonymous 1d

i kept knitting after i transitioned, even though it's seen as a feminine hobby (which sucks, but it is what it is). now i'm a guy who knits.

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Anonymous 1d

Not at all! Lots of trans women (including debatably myself but I’m still figuring that out) don’t mind being masculine. Hell theres an emoji user on here who’s a butch trans woman. It’s totally fine and pretty common honestly! And I agree with what 1 said too like cis women do it all the time as well. Especially in the queer community. I still wear the same clothes I had pre transition tbh.

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Anonymous 13h

I love being a transgender butch it's so peak

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

or as a woman in general lol, you see that a lot in the queer community

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Thanks! I’m just trying to start my transition and everyone kinda assumes I wanna go get dressed, and I just don’t

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Good to know I’m not alone in that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I’ve always wanted to be like the women on my team lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Oh yea you’re definitely not alone in that lol. Like I want new clothes but I’m probs not gonna buy many/any dresses honestly. I’m probs gonna end up being futch when I’m further along but it’s by no means uncommon to go even more masc. and you’re welcome! I like helping other trans people with this sort of thing :3

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

<3

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

:3 <3

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