Anonymous #1 15h

I’m not even poly and I agree. This is achievable platonically as well. I have multiple friends I’d be willing to share a bed with ngl. I may just be a human magnet slightly.

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Anonymous #2 15h

I’m like this too so I get it (the platonic cuddle puddle calls to me)

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Anonymous #3 15h

It’s so good honestly like I try to do platonic physical affection as much as I can (within my friend’s boundaries of course) just cause I know how starved most of us are for it lmao.

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Anonymous #2 15h

It actually was partially platonically achieved!!! One side was my boyfriend, and the other was just a friend that was over for a sleepover

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Anonymous #2 15h

honestly a bit jealous since I haven’t had that since high school 😭 I’m uncomfortable being forward abt it since I want it to feel natural + I have really bad rejection sensitive dysphoria, and I want to respect their boundaries but can never tell from body language how comfortable/uncomfortable someone is with it. so I sometimes ask extensively through text so they don’t feel pressured, but that’s SO awkward and most people say “maybe sometimes” or “I’m not sure” 😭 I’m awful at this ngl

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Anonymous #3 14h

That’s honestly so fair i kinda am nervous about asking too but a bit less so myself. For me i just have a friend who likes it more or less as much as i do and they initiate it a lot or if i initiate it in a small way then they’ll lay on my lap or something like that. Haven’t fully cuddled in a while tho tbh we don’t do that sadly lol. But yea i get it i used to feel way more awkward about it as well😭 I just have less RDS and got more comfortable with it by being closer friends yk.

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Anonymous #3 11h

The friend I cuddled with I was also anxious about but like, we got in bed and she cuddled all the way up to me it was actually so great and just ahhhhh I love cuddles

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