Anonymous #5 9h

there isn’t however personally I don’t view myself as a transman i’m just a man. I have no problem with our community but I just don’t like using labels because in my experience once someone knows you as trans it’s all they’ll see and associate with you.

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Anonymous #5 9h

i'm perfectly fine being a trans woman. my point is that transfem and amab erase my womanhood

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Anonymous #6 8h

I agree with this. That’s why I believe that the only ppl that should rlly know if you’re trans is the person you’re sleeping with(family will already know).

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Anonymous #5 8h

Agreed.

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Anonymous #5 8h

even then if it's just a hookup and you're post-bottom surgery i'm not sure you need to say.

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Anonymous OP 8h

Whenever you’re hookup I believe that you should tell ppl whether you're clean or not but if you're a post up trans person then it's none of their business whether you’re trans, because how would they know anyways. But overall it's safe to still tell because there's still a chance you could run across someone you hooked up with or they might just find out from someone else.

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Anonymous #7 8h

Yeah. I can’t stand when ppl call ppl 18+ boys or girls it’s so annoying. I also can’t stand it when ppl whom are 18+ but in their early 20’s don’t believe they’re grown.

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Anonymous OP 5h

isn’t “transfem” just an umbrella term which Includes trans women?

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Anonymous #8 5h

as a self-identified tfem, it can be used as a form of degendering for individual binary trans people

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Anonymous #8 5h

Hi I’m not OP but most binary trans people don’t like transmasc or transfem because it’s more of a nonbinary term. And most of us don’t wanna be “fem” or “masc” just male or female. Man or woman.

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Anonymous #7 5h

yeah, and many individual trans men/women don’t identify with the “tmasc/tfem” labels, either. masc/fem generally refers to presentation (even if it’s different for “tfem/tmasc”), so implying they transitioned to a more masc/fem identity while presenting the opposite makes them uncomfortable

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Anonymous #1 5h

hell, I know a non-binary person who doesn’t self-describe as “transmasc” since they don’t present masc at all and feels like it’s a misnomer for it. doesn’t matter if its identity “falls under” tmasc, they don’t *personally* identify that way, and as its friend ik the terms they prefer

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