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this is a vent and i dont blame anybody but as a nonbinary transfem it bothers me when trans men tell me theyre not into me because im a woman/girl. its completely fair to not be attracted to me. but im not a woman.
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Anonymous 3d

its like a weird subtle thing where other trans people will assume im more binary trans than i am, ig. im fem, i want a feminine body, its not inaccurate to call me a trans girl, but at the end of the day im nonbinary. im a queer fem gay nonbinary person (really a rabbit but dw bout that). i will never be straight, no matter what

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Anonymous 3d

i’m a transmasc nonbinary person and yeah i support this entirely. people don’t assume i’m a man, and nb tfems shouldn’t be assumed to be women either.

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Anonymous 3d

I’m a fellow nb tfem and get almost the opposite treatment 😭 people can’t be normal about us istg

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Anonymous 2d

i’m “transmasc” nb/genderfluid and constantly change my expression and i get this too. people either decide i’m one or the other, most people unfortunately just don’t understand the concept of being nb. i’ve had people stop me on the street and incessantly ask me “which one i am”. it’s sad when even other queer people don’t understand

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

thats not to say my identity cant change in the future, but thats what i am right now

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