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Trans Talk 4w
why are so many ppl poly and or incredibly promiscuous. its not wrong but i want someone who wants something serious and exclusive
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Anonymous 3w

i think it has something to do with the way that repression and being closeted just kinda utterly destroys your brain. like as soon as it’s over there’s a (fully understandable!) feeling for a lot of people that you need to be as hedonistic as possible and make up for so much wasted life. guilty of this myself ofc.

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Anonymous 4w

My comment was removed but I agree entirely

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I felt that too, but I just don’t think I would feel comfortable being in a relationship with someone who actually then went out and did a bunch of promiscuous shit. Part of being a person is self-control. I have fantasies of 5 people using me at once, but also I don’t want to get desensitized to sex or not see it as something incredibly important, exclusive, and loving at the core no matter how kinky it might be. And I’d need any partner of mine to still have those feelings about sex too.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

and you’re well within your rights to feel that way too if you like lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I’m just worried that I won’t be able to find someone else like that. It just seems so pervasive, and I only want a relationship with other trans folks.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

if i had a dollar for every trans person ive seen say that id have money to get my surgeries, youll be fine, the slutty ones are just more present online for kinda obvious reasons

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Thank you, it can feel like I’m the only one who thinks like that sometimes.

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