Trans Talk on Sidechat | I feel sm guilt being around my family, they have no clue I’m trans and on HRT bc they are super maga and religious. It’s hard when they’re so nice to me but i have the sense that as soon as I come out that’ll change. Any advice?

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I feel sm guilt being around my family, they have no clue I’m trans and on HRT bc they are super maga and religious. It’s hard when they’re so nice to me but i have the sense that as soon as I come out that’ll change. Any advice?

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Anonymous 15h

I mean their kindness likely will disappear once you come out, but that is their choice. You haven't chosen to be trans, you aren't hurting anybody by being trans, literally all you're doing is being yourself, and choosing to do things that make you happy. If they choose to be bigots about that, that's on them, not you, and there's no reason to feel guilty about who you are. You are valid, and loved, and their hatred isn't your burden ❤️❤️❤️

Anonymous 15h

have a backup plan for if they find out

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silvy 15h

If you wanna go like nationalist on them, you can always quote the "life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness" from the declaration of independence and how all your doing is pursuing happiness

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#2 11h

Yeah worst case scenario if they cut me off I’d probably stay with my partner’s parents and quit school to work somewhere

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silvy 11h

Thank you!!