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21m cis Advice for helping my trans gf ๐Ÿ†๐Ÿ’ฆ? We were a gay couple before she transitioned. Shes been on estrogen and prog for a while now and it sort of turned her into a turbo bottom. I like doing both so this is sort of bumming me a teeny bit :(
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Anonymous 6w

definitely understand. maybe ask if she would feel more comfortable topping if she used a strap instead?

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Anonymous 6w

Honestly there isnโ€™t much to do. She may be having dysphoria from her bottom area and taking a more dominant position might make her feel more masculine. Dysphoria is hell, the best you can do is work around it. Maybe sheโ€™ll process it and change with time, but in all likelihood that may not happen

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Anonymous 6w

please please please do not pressure her to top

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