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Trans Talk 8w
Honestly wish I was born a girl. I wanna start cross dressing but I’m low key scared of HRT. Sadly I feel like I’d never be real girl :(
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Anonymous 8w

theres no such thing as a real girl a women can be anything or anyone. if you wanna start cross dressing go for it the thrift stores have lots of cool options you can explore

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Anonymous 8w

oh, girl. we'd love to have you, if you'll have us.

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Anonymous 7w

wdym scared of hrt?

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Anonymous 7w

Take it slow do the things you want to do first. If you’re still going through puberty I recommend puberty blockers (which are entirely reversible), but otherwise, there really is no rush. Clothes and pronouns are easiest, you can also grow out your hair, get breast forms, pierce your ears, and if it still feels right, estrogen is really great. Transitioning is a process, and with every step, you’ll get happier with yourself, and things will become more apparent. Baby steps, girl :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

I’m just afraid I’d look too masculine. Like I don’t want to look like a man in a skirt

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

are you primarily afraid of seeing *yourself* as “a man in a skirt” and how that would make you feel, or primarily afraid of how other people would treat you if they perceived you that way? cause I figure it makes sense to be scared of experiencing transmisogyny, but if it’s an issue of self-perception, I think seeing your own femininity reflected in the mirror will be much more easily achievable than it may seem

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

(like, identity and presentation are innately worthy of exploration, so tbc I hope you won’t be discouraged either way. just wanted to avoid downplaying any concerns of yours re: material circumstances at the societal level)

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

Little bit of both but I’m mostly scared of experiencing transmisogyny

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7w

Like it irreversible

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

are there any changes you don't want?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7w

I’m low key just scared of the side effects

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

there's not really side effects unless you do something super wrong. spironolactone makes you pee more so you need to add more fluids and salt to your diet, but that's it for most people

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7w

Awww tysm!!! What clothes do you recommend I get to look more feminine?

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