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Highly concerning that so many of you upvoted that but no one had advice 😭😭
Love the way I look now, but it was 100% easier to meet women looking like a masc lesbian than a trans masc. Need advice pretty bad because I still love queer women that are a little bit evil, and I don’t know how to find the ones that want me back
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Anonymous 3w

that’s kind of just the way it is. men have a tougher time connecting to women in general

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Anonymous 3w

i would say it’s probably a good thing that most transmascs aren’t interested in trying to disseminate “pickup artistry” tips

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

tbf I’m non-binary and still connect with women fine (OP said trans masc so idk what gender but I’ll still share input). ime how I dress will heavily impact someone’s comfort (very important for women, especially if you’re masc) and how seriously they take me if I’m trying to start a convo. I dress alt and that style seems code for others to assume I’m a certain type of person (left-leaning, queer, ND, or at least supportive of these) bc of how I dress. books with appealing covers get read

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