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I live somewhere super conservative which is why I’m scared about the possibility that I’m trans. But then I get called my name (Bella) and it’s like “Mmmm…. :)” I’m genuinely scared. I don’t know what to do, but I guess I have to figure it out.
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Anonymous 1d

i mean if you have some friends that are supportive you can have them let you try out different names and pronouns, that’s what i did and how i landed on my preferred name and pronouns lol and you can also use online spaces (like this) to do the same thing and see if it makes you happier with who you are inside yk?

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Anonymous 1d

Not really sure why I posted this I guess I just needed to spill

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Anonymous 19h

I mean you could try dating apps to look for likeminded/queer friends so you can build an irl community. Itd take a bit but i think its worth a shot. Unless you think you can move out in the near future

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I don’t think any of my irl friends would approve of me experimenting, sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> transknifey 9h

Maybe, I just don’t know if there’s going to be enough, and if I get found out I could actually be in danger

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