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Got matched with my roommate. I saw he follows Charlie Kirk. Wish me luck.
Starting to accept the fact I want to transition (mtf) while also about to be paired with a random male roomate is so scary. My friend I lived with will move out soon. I don’t wanna be hate crimed 😭😭
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Anonymous 10w

i just got paired with a roommate who happens to also be queer and they’re non binary so i’m good on that regard but they work with my mom as a student manager 🫠 anywho your sitch is real bad. tbh i would go to reddit for advice

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Anonymous 10w

Sometimes they’ll let you switch room mates, I’d ask your RA if you can

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Anonymous 10w

If y’all are living together and ur js rly nice then you could probably deradicalize him tbh. It’s def later in life now but when I was in hs that happened to me bc I just met more queer ppl

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Luckyyy. So far he seems nice from talking to him but obviously as someone who would want to try to be more fem idk how he’d react to that. I’ll be giving him vibe checks constantly to see what I can safely do around him. My family are also hella transphobic so going back home may even be worse.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

The apartment isn’t with the school so there isn’t RAs or anything. I also live in a red state so the likelihood I get a potentially worse person is likely.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

This is a good idea but also bring a knife just in case

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