
i mean, sorry but like.. we are different. it's not a bad thing, and again, as long as it's not fetishistic, i don't see how it's wrong to have a type that is specific to some demographic characteristic. people can't help who they want. frankly i think it's odd that its always interpreted this way when other things like being into redheads or tall guys or smth is just a normal preference. why does it have to be degendering us?
because it literally is degendering. it’s bioessentialism. it’s putting us into a category that is “other” than the sex we have transitioned to. and no, not all of us are different from cis people. those who are fully post-op medically transitioned are almost indistinguishable from cis people other than maybe very slight differences in genitalia and a lack of some internal organs, but people aren’t attracted to internal organs. i don’t understand what you’re not getting here.