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I’m hanging out with a trans man today and I’m really into him but I’ve only dated women before. Any advice on what to say or not say so I don’t put my foot in my mouth?
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Anonymous 1w

ask him to put his foot in your mouth

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Anonymous 1w

be honest with him, communicate that if you mess up, it’s not from malice

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Anonymous 1w

Tell him he’s handsome, that worked for me

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Anonymous 1w

be sincere and specific in what you like about him (disclaimer i may be autistic therapists and people keep telling me it so idk how well this applies to the general population). like, i really love how passionate you are about _____ or you're thoughtful or you look nice today

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Anonymous 1w

Handsome, cute, hot. Compliment eyes, shoulders, smiles. I’m new to being transmasc but when I get those I feel very good :))

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I am too shy for that but we are hanging out again soon 🥳

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