OP im so sorry ppl starting arguments over your identity is crazy. This could’ve been a productive conversation about transness and gender expression, but nobody here has the right to determine whether or not you’re trans 😭

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idek what i am anymore ive been told so many different things by so many ppl 😭

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frankly i don't think you are trans. a lot of nonbinary people don't identify with transness, and since both your gender identity and presentation line up pretty well with your agab i think that would be a more fitting label.

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my take on this is that you can identify yourself however you want, and many things fall under the trans umbrella, but as a binary trans dude it does feel a little odd to want to refer to yourself as trans when you aren’t doing any meaningful social or physical transitioning outside of i’d only assume adding they onto your pronouns. that just doesn’t embody what i really think when someone tells me they’re trans and i feel like that labeling could be confusing imo

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