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Trans Talk 1d
i’m in college now and i said i would finally have the freedom and confidence to socially transition but i just can’t get myself to actually start (mtf)
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Anonymous 1d

do it! i did and i havent regretted a second of it

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Anonymous 1d

Main thing I’ve noticed is that people at college genuinely could not care less what you wear, no matter how much you feel like you’re being judged or watched it’s fully just in your head

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Anonymous 1d

I came out freshman year. It took me until grad school (started this year) to wear dresses to class. Don’t be like me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

what would be the first thing you do?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Tbh start by wearing more feminine clothing. Any little thing that would give you that initial step in the right direction. Come out to those who are closest to you, tell them that you’re starting your journey

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

start growing out your hair and when its at a good enough length go to a hair salon and have them shape it to a more feminine cut, even if its a shorter fem hair cut. also experimenting with style, i always recommend going shopping either some girl friends at a thrift so you can get a bit more for less

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