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I can’t do t4t anymore, too many other trans girls have just been awful to me. I’m so sick of being in relationships with people who don’t actually love me
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Anonymous 21w

this is so fucking real tbh

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Anonymous 21w

only dating “within your type” has always rubbed me the wrong way 🫩 especially when you don’t mesh well with them

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21w

and its actually absurd just how many people are t4t just for the label as if it makes them "more trans/queer" like thats not how it works please work on whichever internalized issue youve got going on itll help you in the long run

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Anonymous 21w

i feel u on this. i don’t fit in with the broader online trans culture at all 🫩 which is fine because i don’t want to

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 21w

people do it for that?? that’s so odd

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Anonymous 21w

i do the same thing. i transitioned young so i never lived as a man at all and i have almost no shared experiences with many other transgender people. i see it as such a small and unimportant piece of my life that has no bearing on my social and professional life. unfortunately that’s driven some people away 🫩

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Anonymous 21w

this is real as fuck. i try not to sound like “wish they didn’t make it their whole personality” bc other people can do what they want. i personally make it not a part of my personality at all cause that’s what makes me comfortable. lowkey it’s nice to know there’s other people out there who feel the same way

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