Anonymous #2 1w

this tbh 😭 like be so ffr like idk if it’s just me but i’ve never really liked “trans” culture like that at my school

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Anonymous #2 1w

and its actually absurd just how many people are t4t just for the label as if it makes them "more trans/queer" like thats not how it works please work on whichever internalized issue youve got going on itll help you in the long run

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Anonymous #3 1w

i feel u on this. i don’t fit in with the broader online trans culture at all 🫩 which is fine because i don’t want to

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Anonymous #4 1w

people do it for that?? that’s so odd

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Anonymous #2 1w

trans communities are just kind of toxic and i just want to live my own life as a person first, my career second, etc. and then being trans preferably dead last. i hang w cishet normative people irl for the most part since most lgbtq+ people kind of have something crazy going on mind you, i don’t pass. but it’s completely possible to live a normal life and not discuss your gender for like the nth time

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Anonymous #3 1w

i do the same thing. i transitioned young so i never lived as a man at all and i have almost no shared experiences with many other transgender people. i see it as such a small and unimportant piece of my life that has no bearing on my social and professional life. unfortunately that’s driven some people away 🫩

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Anonymous #2 1w

see it’s so funny because even though i don’t pass (and i don’t think i will for some time, particularly because of my voice), i’ve never used it as a primary discussion point with people. it’s stupid if anything. i am who i am, i might internally resent the fact i didn’t transition early but i will never make it a point online or in-person. if people misgender me, it’s okay, since i do this for myself and no one else. i’ve appreciated my transition and i hope it leads me to a level of success

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Anonymous #3 1w

this is real as fuck. i try not to sound like “wish they didn’t make it their whole personality” bc other people can do what they want. i personally make it not a part of my personality at all cause that’s what makes me comfortable. lowkey it’s nice to know there’s other people out there who feel the same way

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