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Trans Talk 1d
fuck it, do i name myself Grace as a transmasc enby (yes, after Ryland Grace 😭)
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yea
nah
secret third option: Ryland
secret fourth option (comment lol)
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Anonymous 1d

because like i love the name and Grace gives me an insane amount of gender envy but idk if Grace is stereotypically “feminine” and i want to avoid being misgendered even more 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

Grace is part of the “Virtue Names” group along with Prudence, Temperance, Verity, and others. Those were unilaterally feminine name when they’ve been used in the past, and I don’t believe that’s changed much. Most people will see it as feminine. That said, if you really like the name, use it. It’s gender neutral by virtue of you, a non-binary person, using it. But you said you’d want to avoid further misgendering, so you might not want to use the name, sadly.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

also you can name yourself after something adjacent to Ryland Grace, either a name that’s similar but gender neutral or a name that’s related to something notable about him

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