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went out to a club and got misgendered the whole night only to find out it was because everyone there thought i was a trans woman and not a trans man 😭 i think maybe ive achieved really confusing androgyny in such a way i didn’t anticipate
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Anonymous 1d

i’ve had the same thing happen as a trans woman!! i confidently went to a sapphic event w/ a wolf cut, flannel, and a sports bra to show off my HRT a-cups (i grew them myself). turns out i looked like a he/him lesbian w/ tboy voice showing off my binder 💀

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Anonymous 19h

I’m trans masc and I’ve accidentally done this to other trans mascs and trans fems, I’m so bad at figuring out gender, I always feel horrible afterwards

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

atp it’s a mix up i understand why i get because i do dress androgynous and have long hair and wear makeup sometimes. being so androgynous that people don’t know which way im trans just that there’s something Off about me was always a little bit my transition goal it’s just weirder to navigate than anticipated now that it’s become the reality instead of the goal LOL

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