that’s normal, if you’re uncomfortable don’t do it. if she prefers to receive and you don’t mind the idea of giving, it’s just dysphoria around the body part specifically, you might consider wearing a strap on. so you can still have penetrative sex but like, super lesbionically.

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super normal. As fem trans dating a cis guy, took me two years to feel comfortable with any P contact. Afraid of feeling like a gay man. It took time, but as we hui more trust and as I slowly deconstructed the forced gendering of my body, I slowly warmed up to it.

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I had someone pretend like my junk was a strap on she was riding and it helped a lot

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agreed with strap on part

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there’s always pegging, oral, hand stuff, all kinds of other things to do.

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fellow trans girl dating a cis girl here, i feel the exact same way

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I’m a trans guy dating a trans girl and when we have sex we just focus our language around how we’re gonna make the other person feel, not what we’re gonna do to their body. It helps for us.

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