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Trans Talk 5w
Man I wanna start my transition (mtf) so bad but can’t bc I don’t have a stable job yet and idk how my family will react(mainly my dad) bc my brother (ftm) is already out to them and dad said he doesn’t rlly believe in dysphoria 🫩😔
#rant#fem#closeted
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Anonymous 5w

Trust me it helps A LOT to come out to a couple close trusted friends or even just starting an alt social where ur full fem Just that little bit can carry u enough to get to a point where u can at least start diy or boymode

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Anonymous 5w

get on hrt❤️‍🩹

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Anonymous 5w

You could try growing out your hair a bit if you’ve not already to at least start

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

My GF knows, and our friends she went to college with know (we used to live in the south and now back on the west coast) but idk, it’s hard for me to come out to ppl, especially bc idk how well my old friendships are doing after being out of state for 4-5 years

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

I haveeee, I’ve been growing it out for ~2+ years, got it layered for the first time a bit ago and it’s really nice!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Would but as I was trying to say, I don’t have a stable income and don’t want it showing on my parents insurance at any point 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

But maybe I’ll make an alt-social, ik been trying to at least come out and be myself with my gaming friends since a lot of them idk irl and are all rlly chill

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Ooo awesome. I’m getting my first gender-affirming haircut in a couple weeks

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Oooooo fun, I hope it turns out well and I’m sure it’ll look great

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Hells yeah girly Every little thing helps trust me shits rough out there but we survive

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Thank you so so much

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Yeahhh, pretty rough tonight especially but fuck it we live

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Ofc 🫶

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