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The pre t mlm struggle knowing most men do not see me as a guy so I get scared to even consider dating them (or anyone for that matter)
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Anonymous 3w

I feel this way as someone deciding not to go on t. It feels like I’m never gonna be welcomed in those spaces

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Anonymous 3w

i typically date trans ally bi/pan men for this reason, they see me as a guy, feel comfortable calling me their boyfriend, but also don’t care that i look like a girl. but it is very limiting in who i can date

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

As someone who took this approach, it’s VERY case-by-case. Unfortunately the bi men I’ve dated very quickly went back to dating cis women after I was their “first” boyfriend.

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