
I mean I’d been with my first partner for 5 years at that point, one of my metamours had been with their girlfriend for a year, our bf asked them out first and then me and my husband a month later, then asked out his girlfriend about a month after that, it’s been almost a year and he’s got a crush on one of our other friends, I wouldn’t say it was hard to start it, it was a little difficult to get us all communicating on the level we needed to be, but once we got that handled, we were doing good