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Trans Talk 13w
Cishet friend (man) keeps flirting with me (tguy) because “I flirt with all my guy friends” but lowkey it’s way too constant and starting to make me uncomfortable, I think he’s attracted to me but knows that’s transphobic so he’s passing it off as a joke
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Anonymous 13w

He also gets kinda upset when I mention my boyfriend or the fact that he’s not my type

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Anonymous 13w

yiiiiiikes bad vibes from that guy

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Anonymous 13w

1) why would him flirting be transphobic 2) if he's making you uncomfortable and he's not backing down, you don't need to be his friend and it's completely reasonable to cut him out

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

No I think he’s attracted to me because I look like a girl, but he knows that’s weird and kinda transphobic, so he acts like he’s joking

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

oh in that case definitely cut him off, he's a creep

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