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Nobody ever warns you how isolating it can feel to be Trans man pre medical transition. Some people support, some don’t count you as trans even in your own community because you don’t fit the part enough. Other outsiders think you’re confused.
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Anonymous 8w

As someone who previously identified as a trans man, this is so true. Everyone just assumed I was a lesbian and when I’d tell them that I was a man, they’d look at me like I was crazy. I kid you not, I was hanging out with my bio dad and some of his friends, one of his friends walks in, my dad introduces me as “This is my son, Jason” (my name at the time). His friend looks at me, looks at my dad shocked, then just says “I’m so sorry, dude” to my dad

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Anonymous 8w

Even after passing / being on T for years, it’s still isolating for me tbh

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Anonymous 8w

we should all be entitled to compensation for out pretransition lives.

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Anonymous 8w

Felt

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

That’s awful I’m so sorry! And I also understand the lesbian accusations. I’ve gotten those accusations my entire life and still do, even though I’m actually into men, and I try explaining it as “a gay man trapped in a woman’s body” I get odd disbelieving looks.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

Absolutely

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

This made me so angry my tummy hurts I can’t imagine how you felt in the moment. Nobody deserves someone being that mean regardless of opinions

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