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Trans Talk 8w
Does anyone have advice for a FTM20 looking for a boyfriend? I’ve tried so many different apps and my queer community isn’t super close in my area…just wondering
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Anonymous 8w

honestly might have to just shoot your shot with whatever other queer/trans guys are near you and hope it turns out

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Anonymous 8w

Bear with the apps. Been on for years and have met a few very worthwhile people on there. Look for bi/pan ppl to rule out chasers. Idk

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Anonymous 8w

I would say maybe download lex if you want an app but you could also try looking into a nearby bigger city’s queer community. lgbt centers, night life, etc might be a good place to start. unfortunately it is very hard to meet people when you’re in the house all the time.

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Anonymous 8w

How feasible is moving to a different area eventually?

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Anonymous replying to -> gipsum 8w

Eventually maybe, I’m graduating in May 2027 but I don’t know financially how possible it would be

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Anonymous replying to -> p1llow_pr1nc3ss 8w

please remember to listen to your gut no matter what. in this climate we have no business giving people second or third chances. your safety comes first. unfortunately since you’re so young you’re probably gonna have some lessons to learn tho, so if you have the means I suggest you start reading a lot and find a good therapist.

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