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swaggot420

I’m a gay tboy and early in my transition and like- it’s so depressing to be attracted to other gay guys but have to guesstimate whether or not they could ever see me as enough of a man. (My crush keeps accidentally misgendering me 🫩😭)
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Anonymous 1w

Ok so I’m not the only one going through this?! nice to know.😭🥀it’s ok we will get through this and survive, trust

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Anonymous 1w

real asf i’ve had varying degrees of success with everyone on the gender/sexuality spectrum except gay men 🥀

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Anonymous 1w

I hate that. More people need to be like my husband’s dom… when they met, he thought he was heteroromantic, then when he and my husband fell in love he just shrugged and said “huh, guess I’m gay” and the two of them went on with their day

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Anonymous 1w

As a pre-t trans man in my 20s I feel this HARD

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Anonymous 1w

nooooo i'm sorry sweetie sending hugs

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Anonymous 1w

Incredibly real. Personally I only date bi/pan men, they tend to be more accepting. Not a guarantee tho

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Anonymous 1w

My wife is recently started transitioning (not really. Been in transition for like 3 years now 😅) and I misgender her more than I care to admit. Coming from the other side of things, if someone has known you a while as one pronoun it’s hard to rewrite that part of the brain. My wife and I have been together for 7 years now and she’s always been “my man” up until she started to transition. Keep your head up! They might like you and still working on rewiring that part of the brain. 🫶🏻

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