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People keep asking my pronouns and it’s so fucking irritating and confusing It’s not like new people I’m meeting it’s coworkers I’ve worked with for months I’m stealth, at least I try to be The few people that know said if I hadn’t told them they wouldn’t
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Anonymous 1d

And like I never think to ask why they ask in the moment cause I’m so caught off guard. Like I’ve been passing for months if not well over a year or two at this point?? Sure I get the occasional “maam” from behind at work but I brush that off as my work vest making me look more curvy and having a phat ass and being short. But like wtf??? I have asked the few people that know to please be totally honest and tell me if something’s giving my secret away and they swear they don’t know what it is 😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

And like idk how to answer??? I’m usually just like “uuuh he him” but like is that what a cis dude would say? Someone earlier asked if I “go by any pronouns or anything” and I was like shaking my head no and said “mnah just he him” but like… was that correct? Do they believe me?? Why did they ask in the first place?!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I’m hoping to get top surgery in December and then I’ll graduate school in May and then I can move away and block everyone and start over where no one knows me and maybe just maybe I’ll be able to be my fucking self. But I have to figure out how to pay for the fucking $11k surgery by the middle of September and so far my gofundme is fucking empty 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I just can’t catch up between paying rent and buying groceries and paying for school and my truck broke so I had to sell it and I’m in a bit of credit card debt from school LAST year and then one of my pets passed away last month so that’s on CareCredit and another one is sick so THATS on CareCredit and we’re gonna have to put him to sleep soon and THATLL BE ON CARECREDIT and I just cannot catch up! Like I’m working as much as I can and it’s just not enough 😭

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