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Trans Talk 16w
I have no idea what to do
32 upvotes, 12 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Trans Talk. "I have no idea what to do"
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Anonymous 16w

Call first. If the vibes are good, try meeting in person, and have a plan to leave

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Anonymous 16w

this sounds like something that i would start with a phone call to sus out the vibes

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Anonymous 16w

it seems positive? probably?

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Anonymous 16w

Do they have issues with you being trans? If so their phrasing is sus bc they’re not apologizing/acknowledging that they caused the issues

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

I’m hoping

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

Yeah, they basically hate that I’m gay, trans and liberal….i haven’t talked to them since like September

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Sus

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Big red flag that they aren’t taking responsibility

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Anonymous replying to -> autumna1equin0x.pet 16w

This and reinforcing the idea that your identity is nonnegotiable. A healthy relationship cannot be made without their respect

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 16w

girl what

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16w

Misgendering on the trans sub is crazy work. OP mentioned in comments the relationship with their parents is poor because they do not respect their queer identity. Combined with the text, it is implied “things wrong with our relationship” might be their queerness

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 16w

sorry dawg, didnt mean it as a gendering somebody thing, nobody has mentioned a preferred identity in this thread and i’m so used to saying “girl what” to everyone. i misread your initial response and thought you said “this is reinforcing the idea,” meaning that calling was a bad idea💀

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