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Im a trans man not out to my family (bc they’re super transphobic and evil) and I really don’t wanna walk at my college graduation bc of it. Idk how to explain to them that I don’t care about walking and hearing my deadname while wearing a dress hgghh
#thisisjustaventtbh
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Anonymous 1w

i didn’t go to my graduation either partially for that reason…you can just tell them you don’t wanna go you don’t have to explain yourself

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Anonymous 1w

I’m in a very similar position :( good luck brother

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

i’m not a big event person in general that was kinda the excuse i used

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I’ve been trying to kinda explain similar stuff to them but I’m a first gen college student so im the first person in my family graduating ever and they’ve lowkey been trying to guilt me into still going 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

ahh that’s a tough situation…i hope you can find a way to skip it or a way to find some joy in the experience if you end up having to go 🙏

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Thank u anon, I’m glad I’m not the only one who’s been through this at least 🙂‍↕️

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