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Mtf, central Texas, few months on HRT, living “double life” for 2+ yrs. I really want to start completely living as myself, but I’m afraid for safety and general mistreatment at my Baptist university. Out to all friends, but not to family. Any advice?
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Anonymous 1w

If you don’t mind me asking, are you a fellow Baylor Bear by any chance? I’ve been at that particular Baptist university for six years now and might have some advice.

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Anonymous 1w

it sucks but i'd say leave texas before you live fully as yourself. texas is one of the scariest states to be in rn for us

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Yes!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Ya I agree, I’ll say Austin and Houston are generally fine (I escape for weekends), but I’m looking at other states too. Thx

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Pls DM! 🫶🏽

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I gotchu 🫡

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

of the safe states, i think the cheapest would be virginia, michigan, or oregon, of course outside the big cities.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Appreciate the input! I’m applying to law schools in SoCalifornia, Georgia, and Arizona! I’m a warm weather girlie :)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

i'd be wary of georgia. cal and az are actually safe, ga is only safe by southern standards.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Good to know. I’m sure I’d feel free if I compared it to Texas atp

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